In life | sometimes its better to leave than to get | Its better to lose than win…!

Today A friend questioned me...

“In what does greatness lie..? “To give or to take?”

 “What is great in life ? Winning or losing?”

Ravana kidnapped Sita, lord Ram killed him..

Had he stayed away from Sita he would not have died...

Kauravas won the game of dice  but they lost the war in kurukshetra...

So, sometimes its better to leave than to get... Its better to lose than win…!

In life …. sometimes its better to leave than to get... Its better to lose than win…!

This pain has to be with me forever..... !

I love my father  very much

I didn't feel anything after i lost him...

Everyone cried after he left... But not me

Not a tear came out  from my eyes....

If tears declare how much we love someone... Then even if I  cry all my life..

But.. It won't be enough to show my love to him..

I have no emotions.. Sometimes I feel like i am a cold hearted person ..

I loved my father so much that... I don’t think he has left me and gone away

I thought of expressing the emotion at the same time but

I did not want to express this sad emotion…

We have to hide few emotions all our life     

I have to continue this emotion .. so that I don’t forget my father …

This pain has to be with me forever..... !

Its hard to explain whats going inside my mind....

Its hard to explain whats going inside my mind.  I myself do not understand.... 

One moment i am happy i feel loved and then next moment i feel sad and ignored...

I like nothing will be ever perfect..  Like i want it to be..  I feel like everyone gonna leave me and go..

And i will be alone..  All alone..  I feel like everything is fake nobody really cares.

Its just that when they are bored..  They are with you and the moment they get someone else..  They will leave you and go..

Why cant everything be simple instead of being so complicated..? I don't know i i gonna get this answer...

only goodness that has the power to change the world...

Be kind ! It always comes back to you...

It is said that be good and don’t worry about the results

If you ask me, I have only now fully understood the meaning  of this line

A hassled 20 year old  boy came to my shop today

He frantically gave me a prescription , the bill of which came to Rupees 2000

As he took out the money from his pocket , I realized that he was short in cash the chemist

Seeing his dejected state , remind me of a similar incident in my life 12 years back

When I was suffering from typhoid

My older brother took me to the chemist shop.. However , we did not have the enough money to pay the bill.

We told to  the chemist this but as well all know there are all kind off people in this world .

The chemist washed his hands off the whole thing, but a noble man standing Close  decide to help us.

He cleared our whole bill and when my brother said thank you to him, he simply smiled and said that is only Goodness that has the power to  change the  world.

I quickly took whatever money the boy offered and asked him to leave saying  that its ok, It is only goodness that has the power to change the world.

Don’t know why, but this action of mine gave me ultimate happiness

What that man said to me that night stuck in my head forever. I try and help anyone whenever I can with the hope of reaching that man one-day.

Be kind ! It always comes back to you...

Sometimes people come into your life

Sometimes people come into your life & you know right away that they were meant to be there, to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson, or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to become.

You never know who these people may be – a roommate, a neighbor, a professor, a friend, a lover, or even a complete stranger – but when you lock eyes with them, you know at that very moment they will affect your life in some profound way.

Sometimes things happen to you that may seem horrible, painful, and unfair at first, but in reflection you find that without overcoming those obstacles you would have never realized your potential, strength, willpower, or heart. Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness, and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.

Without these small tests, whatever they may be, life would be like a smoothly paved straight flat road to nowhere. It would be safe and comfortable, but dull and utterly pointless. The people you meet who affect your life, and the success and downfalls you experience, help to create who you are and who you become.Even the bad experiences can be learned from. In fact, they are sometimes the most important ones.

 If someone loves you, give love back to them in whatever way you can, not only because they love you, but because in a way, they are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things. If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart, forgive them, for they have helped you learn about trust and the importance of being cautious to whom you open your heart. 

Make every day count. Appreciate every moment and take from those moments everything that you possibly can for you may never be able to experience it again. Talk to people that you have never talked to before, and listen to what they have to say. Let yourself fall in love, break free, and set your sights high. Hold your head up because you have every right to.

Tell yourself you are a great individual and believe in yourself, for if you don’t believe in yourself, it will be hard for others to believe in you. You can make anything you wish of your life. Create your own life and then go out and live it with absolutely no regrets. And if you love someone tell them, for you never know what tomorrow may have in store. Learn a lesson in life each day that you live! Today is the tomorrow you were worried about yesterday.

Think About it...? Was it worth it...?